Breastfeeding positions
Four tried-and-tested breastfeeding positions according to the NHS and Ireland’s HSE, who each one suits (including after a caesarean) and what to check in each.
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The first weeks of breastfeeding are a learning curve for two. Your baby wants to feed often, your breasts are changing and a lot is new. This guide sums up what is normal, how to tell breastfeeding is working, and when there is no shame in calling for help.
The World Health Organization and UNICEF recommend starting to breastfeed within an hour of the birth, breastfeeding exclusively (with no other food or drink) for the first six months, and then continuing alongside solid foods to two years or beyond.1 According to the WHO, skin-to-skin contact straight after the birth is also part of a good start.1
Not every start goes by the textbook: a caesarean, a baby on the neonatal unit, exhaustion. If the first feed does not happen straight away, breastfeeding can still get going later. Ask the maternity hospital staff for help.
The first milk is called colostrum. The NHS describes it as a thick, golden-yellow, very concentrated fluid. Your baby needs only a little of it at each feed, about a teaspoonful, and may want to feed very often, at first even every hour.2
Around two to four days after the birth your breasts often fill up. This is known as your milk coming in. Feeds then usually get longer and a little further apart.2
The NHS recommends following your baby’s lead: feeding as often and for as long as they want. This is called responsive feeding, or feeding on demand.2 As a very rough guide it gives at least 8 to 12 feeds in 24 hours in the first weeks; in the first days this may be every one to three hours.2
| Period | What is normal according to the NHS |
|---|---|
| The first days | colostrum in small amounts, very frequent feeds, even every hour |
| Around days 2–4 | the breasts fill, feeds get longer |
| The first weeks | at least 8 to 12 feeds in 24 hours, including at night |
Babies do not feed only because they are hungry, but also for comfort and closeness. That is normal too.
Most difficulties in the first weeks have to do with how the baby is positioned. The NHS describes the steps like this:4
We describe positions in which you can do this comfortably in the article Breastfeeding positions.
The NHS lists these signs of good feeding:3
| When | Wet nappies | Poo |
|---|---|---|
| First 48 hours | usually only 2–3 | — |
| From day 4 | — | at least 2 soft yellow poos a day in the first weeks |
| From day 5 | at least 6 heavy wet nappies in 24 hours | — |
Figures according to the NHS.3 The NHS also says that babies commonly lose a little weight in the first three to four days and should then start to gain. Weight is monitored by the paediatrician.
Sore nipples are most often linked to how the baby is positioned and attached. The NHS advises not to put up with the pain and to ask for help as soon as possible.5 Other common problems:
This information is not a diagnosis. If you are in pain, have a fever or your baby is passing little urine, get in touch.
In an emergency, call 155 or 112.
According to the NHS, as often and for as long as your baby wants. As a very rough guide it gives at least 8 to 12 feeds in 24 hours in the first weeks; in the first days your baby may want to feed every one to three hours.
The NHS lists, for example, regular swallowing during feeds, a baby who is content after most feeds, softer breasts after a feed, from day 5 at least 6 heavy wet nappies in 24 hours, and from day 4 at least 2 soft yellow poos a day in the first weeks. Your baby’s weight is checked by the paediatrician.
The NHS says sore nipples are most often linked to how the baby is positioned and attached, and advises not to put up with the pain but to get help from a midwife or breastfeeding supporter as soon as possible.
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We last checked these sources on 13 October 2026.
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